who will take care of the eldest daughter

Who will take care of the eldest daughter? Who will ask her if she's okay? who will tell her that she doesn't always have to be a responsible one? who will ask her why she never complains, why she never ask for anything? who will notice the way she holds back tears at dinner table? who will ask her why she doesn't smile anymore? who will ask her why she stops before finishing what she wants to say? who will tell her its okay to put herself first? who will remind her she deserves love too? who will ask her why she stays up long after everyone sleeps? who will tell her she doesn't need to apologise for wanting more? who will take care of the eldest daughter?