To My First Love (My TOTGA)

I need to be real with you—please keep your distance. Yes, you were my first love, my high school crush, a good friend, and also my TOTGA (the one that got away). But that’s all in the past, and it needs to stay there. There's no need to disrupt my life now, especially with everything that's going on. I can't afford any more stress. What we had was a long time ago, and honestly, you caused me a lot of pain when you left. You disappeared without a word, and it took me a while to pick up the pieces and move on. Now, after six years of no conversation, no connection, and nothing whatsoever, you suddenly pop back into my life like nothing happened? Like you didn’t leave me hanging? I’ve moved on, and I’ve built a life without the hurt from back then. So, let’s keep the distance that’s already there. I don’t want to revisit old memories or open old wounds. I need to focus on my present and future, not go back to the past. Please respect this and don’t try to contact me again. Let’s just leave things as they are, and don’t try to come back.