The Crush you don't want

We've all had a crush that we were in love with, blush everytime they came around, laughed at everything they've said, stared at them from a far, and all of that is great it really is but the problem is you've never actually seen yourself in this relationship, the chase is fun, that's the best part, but do you actually like this person you've said you loved? or are you in it for the chase?