Speak.

if he couldn't speak would his actions make you feel loved? questioning whether or not they would it might truly be his words that are ugly the way he holds my hand is perfect until he tells me my hands feel like sandpaper the way he looks at me seems as admiration was a person then he goes and ruins it with something like "your eyes are losing their spark" all is well a song on continuous loop but a broken record his actions may not be the problem but his words.