Our twisted unspoken voice

We all smile and thank when complemented. We stare at the mirror with such happiness from one persons kind words. Ever notice how that joy and that memory fades faster then a put out flame. That moment last for a second and is swept away like the sea moving from the shores. Yet the second it's a hateful or mean statement. Our brains linger on it for hours.. Days..Months ..sometimes even years. See the difference yet , we so worried on people's opinions that the negative lingers and sticks like glue that can't be removed. These words said as "it's just a joke" is just an excuse people use. See ur hateful words and actions are chains holding people back to the ground like a prisoner of their own mind. Holding them captive for years and years untill they reach the breaking point. So I wonder how is it that all the kind words and kind actions fade like the smell of rain the second the words swap. Why do we care of others thoughts. Maybe we are to attach to this beauty standards to see the beauty inside. We are brainwashed to believe we are what others see. The twisted ways of our brains. Can it ever be changed. Can we ever see beauty in everything again. Well that's all on you and your brains voice 🦋