IS LOVE REAL

People say love is kind but yet it doesn't seem like it. People say love is strong but yet it begins to crack over time. Can we still say love is kind when the person you love doesn't love you back. Should we still say Love is strong while whiles people keep on getting heart breaks. I stand confused, should we believe what they say or follow what we see. Is Love truly kind or cold. Is Love truly strong or just another name for weakness.