He who finds

The Bible says he who findeth a wife findeth a good thing and that makes me wonder if no good thing shall appear in my life but the others is another saying that go ; good things come to those who wait, so then I start thinking that I should just wait but then I remember that there's another saying that goes; god helps those who helps themselves so now I'm trying to figure out what I should do when it comes on to you cause I'm 99% certain that you're the good thing that I found but I'm also 1% sure that you might be another lesson that I should wait but I don't want to wait to lose you and I don't want another lesson for those are too painful so if you feel the need to teach them don't because I'm a slow learner and someone else will just come along to teach the same lesson