divorce.

it effects the whole family , well I know that now more so than ever. I was the parent alienated and my sons were raised to hate me. but just beware that one day these boys will grow into men. so one day u will have a lot of explaining to do.. the years were daunting and I never gave up see it's natural for a child to miss their parents but when one I was removed from their life they will spend their days were actuated with strife . well I wrote letters, called ,and always prayed for God. to remind them they are loved. then one day my son called and we tried to catch up. it wasn't ever easy and I sure cried a lot. I still will if the thoughts come up randomly . I'm still building relationships with both my grown son but the trauma there Dad made for them was way too much. they proceeded to tell me they thought I left bc of something they did. they thought the divorce was all their faults as if they'd been bad kids. so the moral of this story is love will always show up. and if u have kids just remember eventually they'll grow up! let's be better parents better humans the world needs that badly.