boys or girls?

there are so few I like, women are better except for this one... he protects me when we cross the road... he remembers how afraid of cars I am... he jokes around like we've known each other for years though it's only been a month... there's another... he gives me nicknames... he cares about my opinion.. he's outgoing and kind..... but she, she was never like that.... she didn't care about my opinions.... she didn't give me creative nicknames... she won't laugh and my jokes.... even though I knew her for years she seems so foreign to me... a thought finally comes.. boys or girls?.....