bad connection

when I was younger I told myself that I'd never smoke, never drink, never vape but as I get older that seems to dissipate now I say to myself that It makes me a bad person, but that's what everyone does nowadays so is it now normal? or are we all bad people, with this our connection with God weakens as a whole same thing with lust, people ruined romance, for all of us just me, I can't see people dear to me with that perspective thought that is what people are looking for lust why can't we just talk and laugh just me and you, no one else to interact with just me and her eyes behind that perfect gaze of her soul with the truth of her heart in this generation all we have are bad connections with people who think differently